Living the Gentleman Spy lifestyle means getting the girl. But for many men, trouble with women is one of their pitfalls.
Some men seem to naturally attract any woman they want, but millions of other men are unfulfilled. Countless guys stay single or get stuck in bad relationships with girls they aren’t attracted to because they’ve convinced themselves that’s the best they can do.
SEDUCTION IS A SKILL
The art of seduction is a skill that can be learned and mastered.
Seduction starts with knowing how to read a what a woman wants, especially when she won’t tell you what that is.
The good news is that if you’re reading this, you’re already getting there. You’re in the process of rebuilding your body and upgrading your style. You’re mastering bad-ass skills and becoming more alert and charismatic. You are forging yourself into the man she’s always wanted.
But there are specific tweaks to make in order to ensure your success with women.
CONVEY YOUR SEXUAL INTEREST
After a fear of approaching beautiful women, the biggest problem most guys face is they don’t convey their sexual interest.
There are telltale signs when a woman is interested in you:
- She’ll be holding your eye contact and filling in the gaps in conversation.
- She’s pointing her hips or legs towards you with an open body posture, maintaining body contact and touching you.
- And you’re getting a real, genuine smile from her.
Don’t miss out – you must respond to these signals in kind.
You can use your eye contact, body language, a light sensual touch, and words to convey your interest. But if you don’t want to get shut down or get stuck in “the friend zone,” she needs to know you’re romantically interested in her.
IT IS THE GENTLEMAN’S JOB TO SEDUCE A WOMAN
Women like sex just as much as guys do. But most women don’t want to be thought of as being easy, so no matter how attracted to you they are they won’t take the initiative.
This means that it is your job to make the moves, get to know her, plan out your dates, make her feel safe, and move your interactions forward.
Along the way, as you’re making your approaches, driving the conversations, passing her tests, and building attraction, you might be asking yourself why you have to play all these games. “Playing games” can be expressed another way: you’re giving women the experience they want.
Living the Gentleman Spy lifestyle is all about becoming the kind of man that women want to date and giving them the experience they want.
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More information and specific training is inside the full Gentleman Spy program and check out the Resources page for books, courses, and online resources that will help you get the woman of your dreams.
Start today by focusing on making eye contact, maintaining an open body posture, and making conversation. Make the move and don’t take rejection personally. Everything that happens is a learning experience you can use to get better.
Be the man and seduce her.