PHASE 3:
CULTIVATING THE
GENTLEMAN SPY ATTITUDE

Whether it’s scoping out the lay of the land and knowing where the exits are, sizing up an opponent, or seducing the most beautiful woman in the room, your situational awareness and social engineering skills contribute to the self-assuredness you need.

Confidence isn’t to be confused with arrogance, or the false bravado that so many seem to portray.

• From your posture, body language, or mindset, small changes make a world of difference.
• Good situational awareness and social preparedness isn't about going through life on high alert, but paying attention to the things that matter but most people always miss.
• You won’t rely on lies or deceit to get what you want, but use your wit and charm to navigate difficult social situations and get what you want.
• Your skill with the ladies won't be built on tired lines, formulaic scripts, or the peacocking you’ll hear about from aspiring pickup artists.

While some men seem to have many of these innate skills, that doesn’t mean you need to continue playing at a disadvantage. As intelligence services around the world have learned, everything from being aware of your surroundings to becoming good at seduction can be taught and learned.

Your social skills are what separate or connect you with the world, and you’ll learn how to tap into these as you progress through your journey towards becoming a Gentleman Spy.